1. Never, Ever Text Just ‘Hi!’We’ve become a tad lazy with the ubiquitous ‘hi’ text. The truth is, there are far more creative ways to capture his attention. Instead, provide him with a reason to respond. Consider these examples:”Hey good lookin’. How’s your morning going?””Hola cutie. Been thinking of you all morning…”
These messages not only convey that you’re thinking about him but also give him something to engage with. The essence of texting is to initiate a conversation, so always keep your goal in mind. Whether you’re making plans or having a heartfelt chat, tailor your approach accordingly.
2. Show Him You Have a LifeBelieve it or not, men appreciate the thrill of the chase. If you make yourself too available, it might dampen his interest. Let him know you’re a busy woman with a life of your own. Respond to his texts but casually mention your plans.”Good to hear from you! I’m actually walking out the door to meet friends for happy hour. Can I get back to you tonight?””Just saw the most amazing jazz band at the restaurant I’m at. You’d love them! [picture]”3. Ask Him QuestionsReciprocity is key. Just as you enjoy when he asks about your life, show interest in his. Asking questions about his job, family, hobbies, or day is a winning strategy.”Hey, how did that big meeting go today? I was crossing my fingers for you!””Your sister’s coming to town tomorrow, right? What do you have planned?”4. Don’t Always Respond ImmediatelyWhile I don’t advocate playing games, a bit of strategic timing can go a long way. If you respond too quickly, he might perceive you as always available, diminishing the thrill of the chase.
I don’t have an example for this tip on how to text a guy to keep him interested. Just wait twice as long as you want to before you respond. Or put your phone across the room so you actually don’t hear that he’s texted you!
5. Use Emojis Without Going OverboardEmojis are no longer just for teenagers. They add nuance to your messages, preventing misinterpretation. However, be mindful of his emoji usage and match his cadence.”Without emoji: Who said anything about me missing you?””With emoji: Who said anything about me missing you? 😉”6. Let Him Initiate (Sometimes)Maintain a balance and let him take the lead occasionally. Acknowledge and appreciate his initiation to reinforce positive behavior.
“Be patient and wait for him to send the first text!”
7. Have a Purpose with Each Text ConvoDefine a purpose for each text conversation. Whether it’s making plans or having a light-hearted check-in, having a clear goal ensures meaningful interaction.
“Hiya! I read this great article about mythology that reminded me of our convo on the subject the other day. What are your thoughts on…”
8. Wait Til He Responds Before Texting AgainExercise patience and refrain from bombarding him with texts. Allow him the space to respond before initiating another text.9. Be WittyInject humor and wit into your texts. Witty banter fosters a connection and makes the interaction more enjoyable.”Show me yours and I’ll show you mine…””I was talking about tattoos, perv! What did you think I meant? 😉”
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Sending the right messages can set the stage for meaningful connections. However, it’s crucial to recognize that beyond the texts, it is more important to understand what a man desires in a woman. Every guy craves the feeling of being needed and the opportunity to earn your love. They need to feel the chase, it’s their biological Instinct. This instinct is called the “Hero Instinct”, Understanding how this works can help you not only get the guy you want but build a relationship that thrive.
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Remember, while mastering the art of texting is valuable, observe his overall behavior and ensure the relationship progresses beyond the digital realm. Texting is a tool, but meaningful connections thrive in real-life interactions.
